A quieter place to land
I thought I needed more healing…
until I realised how much of myself I was trying to fix.
If you’ve spent years healing, growing, understanding and becoming — but still feel like there’s another version of you you’re supposed to reach — this is for you.
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What if the part of you you keep trying to fix is the part asking to be heard?
So much of what we call healing can quietly become another way of saying: I should be different by now.
I’m interested in something gentler — noticing what is true, listening without immediately correcting it, and allowing ourselves to be human while we change.
I’m Oya.
I write about the things we do to ourselves while trying to become better — the pressure, the searching, the self-correction — and what becomes possible when we begin listening differently.
If one of my TikToks made you stop for a second because it sounded like something you had been quietly feeling too, this space is for that conversation to continue.
You do not have to earn your way back to yourself.
Oya Omore · author & creator
